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        Soul Sustenance 14-05-2013
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        When To Say Yes And When No
        
        
        When you are faced with different situations or opportunities, which do you say yes
            to and which do you say no to?
        
        
        In order to decide, it is important to keep the vision of your dream and what you
        the soul really wants, in front of you. Be aware of what is essential for you. From
            this space of inner focus, we should see which of these situations/opportunities
            are going in the direction of your dream, what is essential and what takes you away
            from your dream; also be aware that sometimes situations are like ‘mirages’
        (illusions) that seem to offer something easy and attractive, but which distance
        you from the essential or the truth. They are opportunities that seem easier and,
        out of laziness, it would be easier to say yes. But within you, if you listen, you
        know that, in the long term, you will not be happy, content and peaceful given that
        you have avoided or are running away from the challenge, you haven't listened to
        your heart. We need to refuse to allow ourselves to be carried by the current.
        
        
        When you say yes to the proposal, situation or action that is close to your essence
            of your spirit, it is a yes in which there is not submission, where you do not lose
            your freedom or your self-esteem. It is a yes with the certainty
        that, learning from what life offers you; you and others will move forward in a
        positive sense.
        
        
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        Message for the day 14-05-2013
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        The ones who are detached watch the challenges that come their way as a game.
        
        
        
        Projection: There would definitely be many difficult situations that come
        our way, but if we are detached, we will not become confused. Detachment gives us
        the power to observe all the situations just as we would observe a game. We would
        not feel caught up, but will be able to enjoy under all circumstances.
        
        
        Solution: If there is any situation where we feel helpless we need to develop
        the power of detachment. We should practice looking at the situation just as we
        would watch a play. Then we can feel light and enjoy the different turns that the
        situation takes.
        
        
        
        In Spiritual Service,
        Brahma Kumaris