Sunday, April 21, 2024

5 Points Of Wisdom For Overcoming Jealousy

5 Points Of Wisdom For Overcoming Jealousy

1. I Am A Beautiful Soul With Many Special Qualities And Attainments - The powerful consciousness that I am special and unique in this world, with my own special qualities and attainments, immensely uplifts our feelings and the way we look at ourselves. It is only when we experience deep positivity about who we are and how important we are, that we stop comparing with others and feeling jealous of them.


2. We Are All Equal In God's Eyes And No One Is Higher Or Lower - Sometimes the other person's attainments like the way they look, their personality, wealth, fame or relationships attract us and we tend to feel inferior and jealous. At such times, always feel that God loves each one of us equally for who we are and neither is the other person higher than us and nor are we lower than them.


3. We Are In A Race With Ourselves And Not With Anyone Else - Feelings of excessive competition often give rise to jealousy and you want to overtake the other person in everything they are good in. This makes you tired and depleted of spiritual treasures like peace, love, joy and power. But a spiritual principle states that it's good to compete against ourselves and make ourselves more and more better with each day instead of focusing on what is good in the other person, which makes us jealous.


4. It's Important To Dream Big But Not Get Over Attached To The Dream - Feelings of jealousy arise in our minds when we try and go very fast in our lives chasing our biggest dreams, even at the cost of our health and relationships. Life feels beautiful when we do not let our dreams dominate our lives and influence us negatively. The more detached we are from our dreams, the lesser is our jealousy of others and lighter is our journey of life.


5. The More The Simplicity The Lesser the Jealousy - It is often seen that people who are more simple in thinking and living never experience feelings of jealousy. Simplicity means to think less and be content with what you have instead of always desiring more. Such people are always happy and are always looking inside themselves and not looking for something or the other outside themselves in other people or the world.

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Message for the day


Faith is the key to the best use of one's fortune.


Expression: For the one who has faith, in the self and in things, there is only positivity. Under all circumstances, there are only opportunities and treasures seen. Each moment is an inner urge to discover these hidden treasures and make the best use of them. So the one who has faith draws out the best from each and every situation.


Experience: When I am able to move forward with faith, I am encouraged to give my best under all circumstances and am able to enjoy the best fruit of the effort that I put in. Faith gives me the courage to go on even during difficult times and so I have the satisfaction of bringing about constant change and progress in my life.


Saturday, April 20, 2024

New Beginnings After Mistakes In Relationships

New Beginnings After Mistakes In Relationships

Sometimes we make mistakes in our relationships. Despite taking care, we tend to use wrong type of words with others or criticize people. In such situations, we become self-critical and guilty. It is not possible to create beautiful relationships with others, till we are happy with our self. Realization of our mistake is important. But more important is to release the guilt and make a new beginning.


1. Creating guilt or self-criticism about the past depletes your power. You need the power to realize and transform, so as to not repeat the same mistake again. Conserve energy by not being guilty or self-critical and strengthen yourself to change.


2. Guilt leaves you feeling bitter about yourself. You have made a mistake, but you have also realized it and are ready to change. Repeatedly thinking about your mistake is not realization. Realization means you put an end to negative thinking and heal your pain.


3. Meditate daily to remain aware of yourself as being a pure and powerful soul. The awareness gives you the strength to change. You will also understand that you are a good person who has done a wrong action, thus separating your identity from your action.


4. Apologize to the other person verbally and send very powerful, loving vibrations that will help them make a new beginning too. Give them the time to heal. Make a new beginning by erasing the past from your mind.

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Message for the day


To be experienced means to be an inspiration to many.


Expression: Words heard can be forgotten, but that which is experienced remains as a deep impression that makes one move forward constantly. The positive experience acts as a stimulant so that others too take benefit from this experience. The actions of such a person are always beneficial. 


Experience: When I have an experience from which I learn, I am able to leave a deep impression for further growth. I am constantly learning from every single thing that happens in my life and I am able to sustain it as a beautiful experience for my life. So this learning becomes a powerful support for those who wish to change.


Friday, April 19, 2024

8 Steps On The Road To Success (Part 3)

8 Steps On The Road To Success (Part 3)

The road to success is filled with major changes which we as travelers on it need to be able to adapt to and face, without the changes affecting us negatively. There are people who are very weak at adapting to change because of lack of spiritual strength and the tendency to look at the changes negatively. It is said at the Brahma Kumaris that the one who moulds becomes real gold or valuable or in other words spiritually pure or powerful. So, the ability to mould or the ability to change as per the different milestones one sees on the road to success is a spiritual power which we need to fill ourselves with. Also, as with traffic signals, what is required is the ability to stop on the road to success on passing certain signposts. These signposts convey to us that crossing them at that moment of time at the speed at which we are, will cause an accident in the form of an ill physical body or a broken relationship. Also, they may cause a stressful mind or a harmed professional or personal role which is being used to reach the destination of success in any sphere of life. This can bring the journey to the destination of success to a standstill. 


Another spiritual ability is the ability to inculcate new creative and constructive sanskaras as per the demands of what side-scenes are seen on the road to success. These side-scenes may sometimes be surprising for many. The type of sanskaras which may be required to be inculcated at that moment of time could be simple like remaining egoless or keeping love maintained with everyone. Also, avoiding the negatives of someone and also not spreading them, not getting frustrated or tired and remaining patient, not creating thoughts of failure and accepting each one's role with ease. Some other sanskaras are emerging the power to discriminate between wrong and right or remaining economical in using resources like money, time and energy etc. Also, just like any other journey, sometimes it is also important not to get stuck in these side scenes. We need to ignore or let go of them and carry on with determination on the road to success with our complete focus on the destination of success which our whole journey is dedicated to.

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Message for the day


Love spreads positivity.


Expression: The one who is loving is not limited by circumstances and his love is not restricted only to certain people. On the other hand, it is revealed in each and every act thus colouring everything and every relationship with the beauty of that love. To be loving is to be constantly a giver. It also means to forgive others easily and help them to move forward.


Experience: When I am loving constantly, I am able to experience the joy of life. I am able to exchange the gifts of pure feelings and find my life enriched with them. I am able to enjoy the beauty of relationships without having to feel the bondage due to expectations. Each moment of my life is filled with beauty and joy.