| Sometimes we make mistakes in our relationships. Despite taking care, we tend to use wrong type of words with others or criticize people. In such situations, we become self-critical and guilty. It is not possible to create beautiful relationships with others, till we are happy with our self. Realization of our mistake is important. But more important is to release the guilt and make a new beginning.
1. Creating guilt or self-criticism about the past depletes your power. You need the power to realize and transform, so as to not repeat the same mistake again. Conserve energy by not being guilty or self-critical and strengthen yourself to change.
2. Guilt leaves you feeling bitter about yourself. You have made a mistake, but you have also realized it and are ready to change. Repeatedly thinking about your mistake is not realization. Realization means you put an end to negative thinking and heal your pain.
3. Meditate daily to remain aware of yourself as being a pure and powerful soul. The awareness gives you the strength to change. You will also understand that you are a good person who has done a wrong action, thus separating your identity from your action.
4. Apologize to the other person verbally and send very powerful, loving vibrations that will help them make a new beginning too. Give them the time to heal. Make a new beginning by erasing the past from your mind. | 
