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Soul Sustenance 06-08-2012
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Rising Above The Expectation Of Praise From Others
Sometimes, we get offended or ill almost on purpose in order to receive special
treatment. Out of a lack of self-esteem and insecurity, we depend on the appreciation
and affection of the other, for them to value us, praise us and always to speak
kindly to us. Even though they have given us many signs of appreciation, if for
a few days they give us none, our inner world or our self-esteem collapses. We become
dependent on what others do, or don't do, in relation to us, whether or not they
nourish our self-esteem, and then what happens? We are always waiting for the other
to give us something when in reality we can give it to ourselves.
Spirituality makes us experience our internal treasures of bliss, happiness, love
and power. It makes us aware that we are givers, emitters and radiators of these
qualities rather than takers. This consciousness helps us rise up above the above
discussed dependencies and remain seated, stable on our throne of self-respect.
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Message for the day 06-08-2012
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The one who is responsible is the one who constantly has good wishes.
Expression: To be responsible means to recognise the importance of one's
own role. That means there is the understanding that others' transformation is dependent
on one's own transformation. When there is the recognition of one's responsibility,
there is naturally alertness. This alertness brings good wishes for even the ones
who are not being positive.
Experience: When I am able to maintain good feelings for all those I come
into contact with me, I find my relations gradually improving. I also find that
I am ready to take up the challenge of changing myself before I can think of changing
others. Due to this, others continue to take inspiration from me and bring about
a change in themselves too.
In Spiritual Service,
Brahma Kumaris